Here's how I had it explained to me --" Take a cumcomber and put it in some vinagar and spices and it becomes a "Pickle" - - no matter what you do to that "pickle" it will always be a Pickle". SO it's Ok to be a "Pickle" as long as know that you wil…
You'll always think like an alcoholic until you change your thinking...
That makes a lot of sense...I've been an alcoholic way longer than I've ever been sober in my life. Thanks for making that point
Thanks for the good reminders here. I too keep thinking it will be different this time...I've cried over the fact that I can't drink "normally"...it's so frustrating, but I'm accepting that this is how it is with me.
I had 9 years sober, 11 years o…
I fist came to A.A. in 1986, I was wide open in the program, I went to meetings every night, was the secratary of the Group and was even asked to be a Guest Speaker a couple of times.I aws sober 31/2 years, everything came so easy to me, got the fam…
I keep out of my head by thinking of how I can help others and then try to do something nice for some else today. Action.....If you're out of your mind, your with GOD, If you're in your mind, you're with self. Hope everyone has a blessed day.
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Been there too. Don't think.....get a sponsor and start working the steps. You will always think like an alcolhoic until you change your thinking. Are you ready to go to any lenghts to stop drinking and treat your disease? (YES) Then get into action…
sometime i think that sometimes your brain is not your friend. that is why faith, friends and family ca n be the suport network to keep on track. Give up on the control thing. Concentrate on what you really have control over like your happiness, whi…
I LOVE THAT!!! "Geez, maybe I over-reacted." I had that EXACT thought MYSELF!!!
I LOVE THIS FELLOWSHIP!!! Woo-Hoo!!! I Am Not Alone!!! I CAN'T STAND IT!!! :)
Matty listed some pretty good questions to ask, yourself Brian. Several friends have told me the first thought they had before spiraling to a relapse was, "Geez, maybe I over-reacted."
I keep a card in my wallet with the following 12 STEPS OF NON-R…
thre is no control Brian. Once addicted the only way to tame the monster is to elimate it.
I thought I had that power. I even had a therepist tell me have two, "behavior modification: BS... two leads to three... and before you know it I was down dri…
All alcoholics have thought this very thing....over and over and over again. My (God willing) last relapse was July 4th through 6th of last year. I had been sober for about 3 months when a friend of mine invited me to have lunch with her on the 4th.…
You Are Not Alone. Haven't you heard the AA definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over & over, expecting different results. (Actually, Albert Einstein said that.) Anyhoo, the 2nd Step says, "Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves…