The whole getting sober young thing I can relate. I am 27. I got sober at 19. When the time is right God will put the right person in your path. I have had a couple relationships in & out of the rooms they both have ther pros & cons.
My experience: In early sobriety I wanted to enlarge my spiritual life. I started attending church. Over the next year I started meeting and talking with the single women. I married one of them when I was a month shy of my 3rd anniversary. That was…
Sex is extremely powerful ... advertising folks use it all the time, because it is powerful enough to sell products that no one needs or wants. People say "its just sex, what's the big deal?" but it is one of the most powerful things we know of. How…
Keep an open mind. It not about the other people...it's about how you handle your soberity. You can do the same thing that other young people do expect drink or use drugs,. If your on shakey ground you better not go. Try Church, aa conventions, aa p…
this is true people have no right to introduce them selves as "alcoholic addicts" "cross addicted" "addicts" "over eaters" "gamblers" "drunks" and what ever else people make up to be cute or w/e the reason is. this is strait from the 3rd tradition "…
this is all good stuff..
the thing is im not actively seeking a relationship but was wondering if i should.
i also have a sex inventory taken and am trying to stick with that.
i laughed out loud at the , "I plead the 5th Amendment and the 10th Tr…
Hey, Eli
SO>>this is the hard part..You have made it two years CONGRATULATIONS THAT IS AWSOME!!!!!!!...Now u want to move forward in what I call the "adult" world..the place we avoided with all out might while using...I dont think that the AA fellow…
Well there are a couple of places you could try to meet someone. I take workout classes at the gym, there are people there. You could also try a website such as Match.com, where you could make your interest ins obriety abundantly clear...
An old timer I know says get a plant for a year. If it's still alive after a year, get a puppy, if it's still alive after a year, you're on your own.
All I know is activlely looking for a relationship has always lead to disasterous relationships fo…
Masturbate . Worked for me. Or get intouch with youself in others ways WINK... If your lonely get a dog or a house plant. Odds are if your asking this question i think you know the answer. You said yourself your spiritually sick over this matter so…
It's a mystery. I met my current Significant Other at the local Alano Club and various AA mtgs. Personally, I like the idea of dating "in the Fellowship" because people are impressed when I can quote page 62! (LOL!) Seriously . . . we talk the same…
Well, yeah, sure, we ALL want to know the answer to that question. We get lonely, or ummmm, you know, full of hormonal urges....lol!
I don't know, being a "gurl" I haven't ever really lacked the companionship of the opposite sex. And not just FOR se…
Im 2 years sober. I have a sponsor and have spoken to him about this matter as well and am told i am stable enough in sobriety to "attempt" dating. i carry a bib book with me where ever i go.where the **** do sober folks go to meet members of the op…