Im 2 years sober. I have a sponsor and have spoken to him about this matter as well and am told i am stable enough in sobriety to "attempt" dating. i carry a bib book with me where ever i go.
where the **** do sober folks go to meet members of the opposite sex. i mean really. sobriety is the most important thing in the world to me and i have no desire to go peruse SLA clubs(for the real sick people here), Al-Anon, AA, Or worse... bars... to attempt to meet someone.
given im 21 and most of my peers "party like rock stars" when they have free time there really isnt much chance of me getting into a relationship at this point.
also given im 21 and full or hormones and am probably a lil spiritually sick over this matter. also i doubt the average girl my age wont be impresssed that i can quote page 62 and so on so forth.
The whole getting sober young thing I can relate. I am 27. I got sober at 19. When the time is right God will put the right person in your path. I have had a couple relationships in & out of the rooms they both have ther pros & cons.